Love

As Valentine's Day came last week I thought about the things that people love. There are the obvious and usual things: family, friends, home, maybe career. But what is it that we love as humans that makes us unique? What is it about what we love that makes us who we are?

I thought about the things that I have loved over a period of years, those things that define me, those things that I love consistently and passionately. What are they? What is their hold on me?

Books! I have always loved reading, spending many hours in the public library as a young child, teen, and adult. As I moved to a new community I sought out each new library in turn, exploring the shelves for new 'friends'. Later my love of books took me to a variety of book stores, both new and used, as well as online bookstores and monthly book clubs. What do I love about books? I love the feel and smell of them. I love the things I learn, the history I become a part of, the stories that take me into another life, the easy reading to pass the time. Now I'm even reading on my iPad, a new experience that allows me to instantly download and begin reading. So, my love of books remains constant even as it transforms from library to bookstore to ebook.

Maine! What is it about Maine that calls to me? I've loved Maine for at least 12 years, ever since I ordered a free travel magazine. I don't know what first attracted me, but I do know what holds me now. Maine sings to my soul, calms me, energizes and inspires me. I love the seacoast, the mountains, the trees, wild flowers, ferns, stone fences, lighthouses, sunrises and sunsets, fairs, lazy days. Maine feels like home; it feels like where I belong, where I am most truly my real self. I've often wondered about the source of this attraction, but have no idea. I have visited Maine seven times since 2000,exploring all of the coast and much of southern Maine, finding my favorite area in 2009, Pemaquid Peninsula in the mid-coast area. Maine is the source of many comforting memories that sustain me while I'm exiled in Texas.

Beagles! What is it about a beagle that is irresistible? Over my lifetime I've loved four beagles. Tippy entered my life as a puppy when I was a child; he was the typical outdoor dog, a great playmate for little girls. When I was a young adult I got Tubby,a beagle puppy to love when we bought our first house. He was full of mischief in his youth, but gradually became a good companion for my young children. Next came Angel, a Christmas puppy gift from my grown daughters who knew how much I loved beagles. What a surprise! She totally stole my heart, she was my most faithful companion for ten years through divorce, moves, and career changes. Angel knew and loved me well, and letting her go when it was the kind thing to do was a difficult decision. Nine months later I was ready for Abby. She was a rescue dog about a year old, the first adult dog I ever adopted. She's been with me four months now, and she grows closer to me everyday. What do these beagles have in common? They are gorgeous tri-colors, mostly black with white tipped tails and long ears. They are loyal and loving, mischievous and full of life, joyous and fun! They make me laugh and cry, create comic relief as well as constant chaos, and invite me to fully participate in life. They are true friends who always listen and love me unconditionally.

Am I defined by these things that I love? Most definitely! Books, Maine, and beagles are integral parts of my life. They sustain me, help me grow, and provide inspiration. They enhance my life and encourage me to be my best self.